All the decisions have been made, and your room is chosen. Your belongings are packed up, and it is finally moving day! Every assisted living community will handle move-in day differently, but here are some of the events, emotions, and tips we thought you should know about for your first day. First and foremost, relax and embrace the change. We understand that this can be a challenging time and that emotions may be running wild. It is important to remember that this is a positive change and an opportunity to create a whole new phase of life.
Here is what you may encounter on moving day and during your first days in your new assisted living home.
Moving Day – Deep Breaths
Moving day can be stressful for anyone, but it may be challenging to leave their longtime home. The best strategy for most on the first day is to step back and let your family and the moving company, if applicable, handle the move for you. You may feel stressed and overwhelmed, but your family – and the staff at the assisted living facility – are here to calm your nerves.
The team at the assisted living will coordinate with your movers so that they know which entrance to use, how to get to your room, and any special instructions they need to know. Personnel from the maintenance and housekeeping departments will be on hand to help with the process if necessary and answer any questions you may have.
If you’d like to oversee the movers, that is your prerogative. But once you’ve given them some basic instructions, you may want to share lunch with your loved ones or say hello to a few new neighbors. Stepping away from the move itself can help calm the anxiety and make you feel more at home. If you don’t feel comfortable leaving the room, ask the staff where you and your family can get a cup of coffee or a snack – it is an excellent opportunity to learn a little bit about your new home.
If you do not have family members with you, ask if any activities are taking place that day. There is no time like the present to jump in with both feet and meet your new neighbors.
Take Some Time Settle In
Once your movers have arranged the furniture to your liking, you may hope to settle in just a bit. After a long first day, you may not want to unpack entirely, but arranging your bed the way you like it, unpacking your toiletries, and setting up a few favorite photos is a good start. If you need help hanging pictures or assembling some furniture, be sure to contact maintenance.
While some prefer to stay in their room and settle in, others may decide to go to the dining room and meet some new friends. Whatever your personality, do what makes you feel most comfortable in your new space.
Staff and Residents
Moving is exciting for you, but your arrival has been eagerly anticipated by the staff and residents as well.
Your neighbors are likely to stop by and say hello. Visitors can be a lot of fun – especially if you feel a little lost – but may also be overwhelming for someone who is processing their new situation. Entertain if you feel up to it, but don’t be shy about asking them to come back at another time if that works better for you. Remember: If you tend to be introverted or shy, don’t let those feelings overtake you. This is a wonderful opportunity to surround yourself with a new community. You can ask them what they like about the facility, their favorite activities, and how they like to spend their time. You may find you have a lot in common!
You can also expect team members from the facility to drop by and check in on you. There will be official visits, such as completing assessments and filling out forms. They will also learn more about you, your history, and what you like. Personal information helps them formulate a care plan that works best for you, your preferences, and your personality.
While moving can be overwhelming, it can also represent an exciting new beginning. Please make the most of it and enjoy your new home!
At A Banyan Residence, we are happy to set up a tour for you and your loved ones. Call today for more information.
